Tara the Flame She recently got candid about her views on relationships, marriage and motherhood in an interview Rhea Chakrabortyoffering a very personal perspective on what he looks for in a partner and starting a family.Talking about the type of relationship he values, Tara he emphasized emotional alignment above all else. “I think the idea of love between two people should be similar, if not the same,” he said, “Simple things have to line up: your foundation, your foundation. How you feel about people has to line up.”For the actor, kindness is on the must-have list. “Kindness is non-negotiable,” he said, and also emphasized the importance of handling conflicts maturely. “How you make the other person feel even when you disagree… how you deal with conflict and agree to disagree.”
“Sometimes you have to love them more than you love them”
Tara also reflected on how relationships evolve over time, stressing that love alone is not enough. “You have to like each other before you can love each other,” she said, adding, “When you love someone, you have to ask: How much do you really like them when you’re with them all the time? Sometimes you have to like them even more than you love them.”He also noted that self-awareness plays a crucial role in building meaningful connections. “If you don’t know yourself, you can’t know another person deeply…and therefore you can’t love another person deeply,” she shared.After spending considerable time on her own in recent years, Tara said she now appreciates her partner’s emotional clarity. “That’s my wish for whoever is with me…Please know yourself. I’ve spent so much time being alone… so when I’m with someone, there’s less room for error.”
“Deception, betrayal and lies are deal breakers”
When asked about the non-negotiables, Tara was clear: “Cheating. Betrayal. Lies. Honesty. Hypocrisy… I can’t deal with that because I would never do that to someone.”Although she spoke at length about her relationship, the actress admitted that she is still unsure about motherhood. “I don’t know… I really don’t know,” she said when asked if she wanted children.Explaining her doubts, Tara added: “You have to be so present for them. It can’t be the second thing on your list, it has to be the first thing on your list. I love children, but I’m still not completely sure.” She ended on an honest note, saying, “I feel like I’ll know when I know. If it happens, it happens. But it’s never been at the top of my list.”
